In coming up against the humanness of the ego it seems that at times one is able to observe when one is being judged by another individual or group of individuals. We are all human and therefore we have learned about judgment from our schools, media, religions, governments and our parents. So, why is it when we recognize that we are judging another do we continue to do so even when we know it doesn't feel good?
And is it judgment coming from another individual or is it judgment coming from the observer that defines it as judgment? Another thought is that is the judgment based on the observers emotions around the perceived judgment or is it merely observation?
When one can feel the energy behind someone's comments and they know that they are being judged, how is one to respond to this judgment? Typical responses may be to deflect, defend or disassociate from such judgment depending on the one being judged owns context window of ideologies and beliefs about oneself and the world around them.
Is it even worth the effort to comment back to the judger or is in giving attention, energy and focus to such scenarios creating more of the same judgment? Or in the case of the same scenario and one knows one is being judged and they are at a loss of words because they are conscious of the negative feeling that are experiencing, and not wanting to inflict the same pain on another individual, if they resist comment are they subject to further judgment?
Why is it that people feel that they have the right to judge another person? Why are people so incredibly unconscious of the words that they use, that they are able to inflict so much pain into the world based on their use of words that feel so horrible? Why is it that the majority of the population is asleep and are completely unaware that as they go about their daily activities, that because we are all energy, their thoughts truly do become things.
The thoughts and words towards another of judgment, opinions and observation is harmful not only to the recipient that they are being directed towards but are bouncing right back at the individual who is thinking and speaking. More damage is being done to the auric energy of the individual who is doing the initial thinking, than to the person that they want to inflict their thoughts upon.
The reality that we are all energy is so profound that many teachers are attempting to teach it and yet most of the students are asleep and in confusion as to what the true essence of the lesson is all about. When we think a thought, for example a judging thought, we are in turn judging ourselves. The negative energy of the words we have formulated are a direct correlation to how we view ourselves. If we are judging others then in turn we are judging ourselves.
To further expand on the energy of judgment the tone in which we communicate the judgment, the specific words we use and the context we use them in all heighten the negative energy behind the judgment. Since we are, and everything is energy it makes logical sense that there is energy behind words.
This observer feels the energy behind words, as do many walking the planet, and yet for those of us who feel the energy behind words we feel them even more so when they are combined with certain tones and contexts. Therefore, judgment seems to some people as no big deal and to others as a form of condemnation, suppression and out right rejection.
In order to render this an make some logical sense as to why people judge this observe is in the process of allowing individuals to have their judgments and look towards the judger with peace, love and compassion. For in the judgment of others the judger is only judging themselves. In consciously being an observer one is able to remove the feelings and emotions when attempting to be part of this physical world, and allow each individual to have their own experience.
In observing a judger and in the minds eye offering peace, love and compassion towards the judger, the observe in turn is receiving peace, love and compassion back towards themselves. So, it would seem logical then that as more people began to view judgments from a state of peace, love and compassion that in time judgment would eventually disappear and we would live in a world of peace, love and compassion.
Therefore, choose thoughts consciously because they have energy. Choose thoughts that feel good. And when we choose thoughts that benefit others we also benefit ourselves. And this tiny step of the individual waking up means that each one of us can have a positive effect on the global oneness of humanity.
If peace, love and compassion becomes the global constant, imagine a world where we all have more than enough. This seems to be an observation that feels good, one that serves all of humanity. Be an observer instead of a judger. Why because it's not only your best interest but that of all of humanity.
Friday, May 30, 2008
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Andria,
In principle, I agree with you. The challenge here is to make peaceful judgements about people, while still assessing their character traits, abilities, or whatever the situation calls for, without necessarily making damaging judgements.
I can be a challenge, because as part of being human, we have to make judgements. I think it's only the vegetative person who doesn't make judgements.
I mean, we have to make judgements as to whether Jan is best for the job...or Jennah.
Sometimes, especially in business, we have to make judgements about people based on the way they dress and how they carry themselves, before we even get to know the person.
Sometimes, these judgements are inaccurate.
But it's what we have to try to survive sometimes.
But I agree, in principle, we should only radiate peaceful judgements to people.
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